Sunday, September 30, 2012

Why should you not cheat?

Why should you not cheat? There are many mind boggling questions that we face throughout life and one of them can be this. To cheat or not to cheat. Most precisely when you have the chance to cheat. Many people ask this question during slow phases of their relationship. When their significant other is not much giving heed to their needs or requirements.
There is a certain stereotype that surrounds cheaters. It goes something like this: cheaters are terrible monsters who are selfish and only care about themselves.
Here are the reasons why you shouldn't cheat:
  1. First of all, you are not a Sleazebag, and you don't want to be one too. Wasn't it simple. Remember when you used to dream about your future self. you never imagined yourself to be a sleazebag, because that's something you always hated. even though sleazebag gets girl most of the times, but you just cant stoop to that level. am i right or not.
  2. Its not worth it. Its never worth it. The thing you have with your present partner is far too much sacred and fun to be messing with. Okay i admit its not looking like much fun right now, but its still love isn't it. Remember trust once broken can never be earned back.
  3. Its just a phase and it will pass. Just hold on a little bit longer.
  4. And do you really wanna go into that dating struggle. Its a jungle out there mate. And i don't know whats your perception of jungle, but i don't think its a fun thing. That's why people use the phrase,'its a jungle out there'. Despite there being billions of people in this world, it’s hard finding people who you can open up to, and completely trust with your heart.
  5. Think about how she or he would feel. The person whose faith you will cheat will be broken beyond repair. They trust someone with their life's secret and then that someone break that trust. Maybe they never will be able to trust again. You don't want the burden of that on your conscience or do you?
  6. There are pretty good chances that you might loose your friends over this also. I know it doesn't seem possible, but believe me it would happen.
  7. Final and most important, how would you feel if your significant other did that to you. If you think deep down in your heart that you are gonna be okay with that, I don't suppose there is a reason for you to stop cheating, but i really think you would be anything but okay.
 Though we all accept that lying cheating etc all happen, but we mostly don't expect them to happen upon us. and there is a reason behind it.

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